Why Women Test You

[Video Below] Why does it always seem like women are putting you through a mental and emotional obstacle course when they’re getting to know you??

Offering up “tests” and constantly grading you to see if you pass?

And if you say or do the wrong thing…

We make it seem like you’ve totally blown it?

I promise we are not just being sadistic.

We really don’t “test” you to be cruel or to try to make your life a living hell, all for the sake of dating us.

We ARE trying to get you to prove SOMETHING to us, however.

In my video below, I explain exactly why women test men, and how you can pass this test with flying colors. At minute 2 in the video, I show you why this testing we do is actually motivated by our own INSECURITY.

We desperately want to make sure that you like us, care about us, that we have value in your eyes.

A great example that I use is when a woman is flirting with you and, say, makes a playful comment about having a THREESOME with you and another woman (@ 5:55).

You COULD respond by playing along and telling her how hot that sounds.

DON’T do that… she’s not just flirting with you: she’s TESTING you! This moment is your opportunity to PROVE you’re into her in a powerful way…

How? By saying something like, “Why would I want another girl? You’re all the woman I need.”

WOAH! Even writing that I got the chills. Because that’s how I wish men would respond to me.

So check out my video here for all these tips and more and discover why women test you AND how to pass each test with flying colors.

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  • Bill W

    Good stuff, Marni. I’ve been out of a 4 year relationship for two months and working to be better for the next one with your assistance. Not that I made all the mistakes in the last one, but we both played our part. Thanks for the tips and thank you for your honesty. I feel what you said was thoughtful and sincere, therefore, I trust you.

  • John

    yeah bill said it thank you for sharing that its refreshing to see a woman be so open about that. but I know you are a woman that does not hold back in a good way.
    I am just trying see how I can relate this to myself with women. I am not in a deep relationship at the moment been so focused on career last few month now I have taken a moment to stop and think about this, it’s like of course we men like women but for a man still looking it feels a bit worrying say your only woman for me and I strongly believe in what you said in the video as well it would be different if dated a while but what should you Mind set be If meeting new women.
    And yes most of time(edit- all the time. lol) we love women for who they are and if a man has a good woman in his life he would be a fool to look elsewhere.

  • Frank

    Great information, but I have a followup question. Is there a way to get a girl to “call out her elephant” (where the insecurities are likely coming from) so that she’ll feel more comfortable with having a direct conversation with you rather than “testing” all the time?

  • Robert

    Thank you, Marni. A very useful and important video. You are appreciated!

  • That’s great information Marni. Thanks!

    What I was thinking while watching is that the question of the threesome actually applies to a lot of situations of “testing”. I mean that questions of that kind could be dozens. Question that want to test how serious we are about them and any questions to test our seriousness and character. Overall it’s an evaluation women do to us.

  • Paean

    Thank you very much, Mrs. Marni. Part of me wishes I had known this before when a certain lady ran me through her version of “The Gauntlet.” I don’t think I passed her battery of tests at the time. Had I watched this video back then, I probably would have. Oh, well. At least I can use this stuff for current and future relationships. God bless you for this.

  • MistaRios

    I cannot begin to tell you how wrong testing is. It’s projecting your own problems, issues & insecurities on to someone else. It’s deplorable behaviour to expect someone to read your mind & then penalise them when they can’t. Maybe I need to start up a website where I teach women who test to become better human beings.

  • howard

    Gee, men get to prove themselves to these women!Sounds just wonderful! Why don’t we just start testing the women and see if THEY are worth OUR time and trouble?

  • Erik V

    From time to time ladies/girls do hit on me in a very explicit way while I have no intention to sleep with them immediately (I’m not a saint), I usually reply with “tempting offer but wouldn’t it be better to …”