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Make Her Feel Special – How To Keep Your Woman Devoted To You

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3 Steps To Make A Woman Feel Special And Keep Her Love And Devotion

If you're in a committed relationship and your relationship could use a refresh and you want to make HER feel special then keep reading…

Now you may or may not know this about me but other than being an outstanding wing girl to 100’s of thousands of men around the world delivering NO BS information about what women want

I’m also a Wife and A Mother or a WILF and a MILF as I like to view it. Ha.

And just like you, I’m always seeking information and tools on how to do things so that they are easier and I can succeed. 

Recently I’ve gotten into this amazing parenting program by Amy Mccready that gives 30 different tools to successfully parent without yelling.  Something I’ve been struggling with. 

And one of the tips she shares early on actually made me think of you and women.  

It was one about breastfeeding. Kidding. Bad joke. 

It was the tip she shared about the importance of doing 10 minutes of a special time and how valuable it is to solidify the emotional connection.  

10 minutes of special time

In fact, Amy says if there is 1 tool is in her toolbox that everyone must do it’s this one to ensure the one you are trying to connect to and have less conflict with feels heard, loved and safe.  

I got to thinking that as a woman if my man were to offer me 10 minutes of special time every day, I would be in heaven. 

Many of you watching may not have that special lady in your life just yet but you’re watching videos.  Which means very soon you will. 

And this tool will help you immensely once you get past that initial attraction phase and get into the deep relationship phase.

The phase when flirting is secondary and emotional connection is #1. 

So what is 10 minutes of a special time and why can it help you guarantee your woman remains warm and fuzzy instead of cold and bitchy?

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What is “make her feel special time”?

10 minutes of special time is literally 10 minutes that you can give your woman where your full focus is on her. 

Where you give your undivided attention to her and do what she wants to do. 

With busy schedules, routines, and stress, many times those that are deep in relationships forget to give undivided, focused attention on their partners 

And with that lack of focus and attention on each other, the relationship starts to erode and the moods start to shift. 

I will say 9 out of 10 times the women in the relationship will feel the pangs of this first and the most. And will do what they can to get this focused time back.  

When their efforts fail or when they aren’t getting exactly what they need to feel fulfilled their behavior changes.

They feel emptier. Unloved. Unseen. Not special.  

And thus begins the negative spiral so many of us have experienced.  

BUT if you were to notice this and give your girl that 10 minutes of undivided attention. 

I promise you this shift would be way less drastic and could even be totally avoided. 

So Here’s how to do the 10-minute special time. 

BTW it’s super simple to do.

Give your full attention to your woman

Number 1: Every day pick a time when you have 10 minutes that you can give your full attention to your woman.

It’s best to pick the same time every day but totally get if it’s not possible. In fact, I’ve been doing this with my son for the past 2 weeks and it has transformed her moods with me.  

And when I skip a couple of days, I notice that moodiness starts to creep back in. 

So be as consistent as you can but also understand it will and can still work if you don’t get to do it every day. 

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Number 2:

Announce the “make her feel special time” to her

Let her know that having this time with her is special enough for you to label it and announce it. 

“Honey, I have about 10 minutes before I leave for the office and would like to spend that time with you.” 

Or “Honey, I’m about 10 minutes away from falling asleep but I realize I haven't had any quality time with you today. Come lie on me and tell me about your day” 

Announcing it makes it all the more special and she gets what you are doing and doesn’t have to be wary. 

Take these 10 minutes to either listen to her, share with her, hold her, have fun with her, do something she needs you to do.  

This time is for her and about her but it’s also about connecting and nothing else mattering. 

Number 3:

Make sure that in these 10 minutes you give her your undivided attention.  

That means no cell phones or distractions.

If she wants to talk. Listen.  If she wants silence and for you to hold her. Hold her and don’t talk. 

If she wants you to hang up a picture that has been lying on the floor for weeks, help do it!  

Seeing a pattern in my examples? I obviously have a picture on my floor that has been there for weeks.  

A little quality time from my Mr. my alleviates some of my frustration. 

Taking 10 minutes a day to focus on her wants and her needs feels so amazing to a woman. 

The point is to have this time feel special. 

And the more days in a row where you help make this woman feel special, the less you’ll get the bad stuff from her. 

This will lead to more connection, more closeness, more love, and more sex. 

I promise.  

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I love how something I learned in a parenting program can cross over to you. The truth is all humans have the same desires. They want to feel like they belong and that they are loved. 

And doing 10 minutes of special time each day will help the lady in your life feel exactly that. 

When women feel this, they become calmer. 

And when they are calmer. They are more open. 

And when they are more open, the possibilities are endless of what they’ll want to give to you. 

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Marni

Toxic Women | Never Date These Girls

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8 Types Of Toxic Women To Avoid

Toxic women are pretty much the only type of woman I will tell you to avoid.

Just because when you follow my advice you can potentially date any girl doesn’t mean you should.

The reason is there are certain women out there who are terrible for you.

Certain women, you should NEVER date. Women who will BREAK your tender heart into pieces, no matter what.

And I would hate to see you get your heart broken by one of these women.

That's why I'm going to go over the eight types of women who are almost guaranteed to break your heart into pieces.

Let's start with the first category of toxic women.

Toxic Women

The Attention Addict

This type of girl lives and breathes for attention. Avoid these toxic women. 

She’s the type of girl who’ll post thousands of “sexy” selfies on social media and track how many likes and comments she gets.

She’s also the type who you’ll find chatting and flirting with almost every guy she meets. 

Not to hook up with them necessarily, but just to get validation.

The challenge with this girl is that at first, it might seem like she really likes you and wants to be with you. 

She’ll flirt with you, laugh at your jokes, touch you, open up to you, but soon the novelty of your relationship wears off.

Around the three to five month mark of seeing each other, she'll become bored of you and she will want to take off.

She will leave you and hunt for the next guy who can give her the attention she needs so she can feel great about herself.

Unless you’re looking for a casual hook-up or a short-term fling, stay away from this type of girl. You’ll do yourself a favor.

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The Money Hound 

The money hound or the gold digger is the type of girl you might have heard of a lot. This girl is all about the cha-ching!

Men are basically tools for her. Tools who can support her financially. She doesn't give a crap about how good you are as a guy or how compatible you guys are together.

She only cares about how much money you make, what car you drive, what type of work you do, and other superficial nonsense like that.

The challenge with this one is these types of girls are usually super hot.

At first, your primal brain is going to be like “Holy shit! 

Does this smokin’ hot girl like me? Wow. I’m going do anything to sleep with her!”

And that is where you’ll fall into the trap. The moment you start dating her, she’ll come right for your money.

She’s gonna demand expensive gifts all the time or want to go to posh places for dates. 

She might even take your credit card and go on shopping sprees. If you even try to stop spending on her, she’ll get really pissed and upset.

My pro tip: Stay away from this type of toxic women, no matter how attractive they might be. Not only is that dating advice, but it’s also financial advice.

The Rebound Hunter Toxic Woman 

Okay, one’s a sneaky bullet to dodge. She is the woman who just came out of a relationship. A serious one.

She secretly misses her ex and wants him back. This toxic woman doesn't feel good about herself right now.

In fact, she’s pretty lonely and desperate for love and connection so she goes out on the prowl. 

This woman looks for a guy who can fill the hole in her lonely heart who she definitely doesn't want to date long term. 

She just wants the guy to make her feel better. In some cases, she might even want the guy just to make her ex jealous.

But whatever the situation once she fulfills her mission, she's out.

The challenge you might face with this type of girl is two-fold…

Unless she tells you she just got out of a relationship, you won't know about it, or that she's hunting for a rebound. 

Next, since she’s super eager for love and connection, she’ll show a lot of interest in you upfront. 

She will flirt with you, open up to you, and even make out or sleep with you quite easily.

Seeing this amount of eagerness from a girl, you might get a little too excited.

You might start liking her a little too much and then get attached to her.

And that’s exactly when you’ll run headfirst into a painful heartbreak with this toxic woman.

So my advice to you is: if you’re looking for a long-term partner be careful and screen girls properly before you date them.

The Toxic Women Who Never Appreciate 

It’s no secret that women like compliments and appreciation. We certainly love them.

As a man, I’m sure you also want to be with a girl who truly appreciates you and compliments you once in a while.

Especially when you do something nice for her, get a new haircut, a promotion, or wear something that turns her on. 

That's where the problem lies with this type of girl. She will upset your expectations during these moments.

She won't compliment you or tell you how much she appreciates you. In fact, it will seem like she just doesn’t give a damn about you. This will make you feel really bad. 

In fact, as you spend more and more time with this girl you will probably start to question if she ever liked you at all. 

Then you will start questioning if you’re even good enough for her and gradually your self-esteem will take a hit.

That’s why you want to avoid this type of woman at all costs even if she is super hot.

There are plenty of beautiful girls out there who’ll genuinely appreciate you and your efforts.

Look for them and date them.

Ms. Anger Issues 

This type of girl is plain nuts. She’s basically like a hyperactive volcano.

Something doesn’t go the way she wants it and these types of toxic women tend to erupt. 

The worst part is these “eruptions” are going to happen very often.

Sometimes, she’ll even get pissed for absolutely no reason! If you try to calm her down, she’s just going to get angrier than ever before.

In simple words, she’s terrible company.

There’s no way you can be happy with her. She will destroy your mental peace.

Even if you have some initial spark with her it will fade out when you get familiar with her angry side.

Stay away from her. If you date her, you’re going to get burned. 

The “Toxic Women” Cheaters 

They say the best predictor of the future is the past. That is why you should avoid this girl.

She’s the girl who has cheated on her ex or exes and like every other cheater, she will probably have her reasons.

Reasons like her ex was a douchebag or she was extremely drunk and didn’t know what she was doing. Whatever it is she will have a reason. 

Whether it’s a valid reason or not, it doesn’t matter.

If she has done it once, she might do it again. And she can come up with another reason for it this time, too.

So your best bet is to avoid her even if you are super into her.

The biggest challenge you’ll face with this type of toxic woman is that she’s quite hard to spot.

I mean, it’s rare that a person would be upfront about his or her cheating experience.

That’s why you need to look for subtle signs.

Things like an extreme need for privacy or long calls with mysterious new friends, or accusing YOU of having affairs are all signs that she might be a cheater.

The One Who’s Friends With Her Ex 

Dating this type of toxic women is like dating a time bomb. You see, most of the time, girls who still keep in touch with their exes still have some feelings for them, especially if the breakup is recent.

This means when you have one big argument with her or you make her mad she’ll be just one text away from a guy who she liked and used to date.

A guy with who she has both slept with and shared some good memories.

If she gets a bit too emotional and acts on her impulse, she’ll probably end up cheating on you with him or simply dump you and go back to him.

So in plain English, if she’s still friends with her ex, she’s a risk you don’t wanna take.

In case you really, really want to date this girl, then you should be upfront with her and ask her to explain the nature of her relationship with her. 

There are certain cases where exes can remain friends with no chances of getting back together. But those are few and far between. Ask for clarity and transparency and then decide how you’d like to proceed.

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The Perfect Mismatch Toxic Women

The toxic women you want to avoid but can't is the one who is most dangerous. She’s the girl who you’ll feel hopelessly attracted to.

This girl is your ideal type physically. You’re blown away by how sexy she is. 

Her smile, her hair, her eyes, her amazing curves! Everything turns you on. Once she starts showing interest in you, all your logical filters shut off.

You just want to impress her, be with her, and do unspeakable things to her in bed.

The problem is although she’s your ideal type physically, emotionally she’s a complete mismatch.

This girl has almost nothing in common with you.

Your hobbies, passions, aspirations, and values are completely misaligned. 

This means once the novelty of her amazing looks fades off you will value her less and reduce the effort you initially put into maintaining the relationship.

That will force her to lose interest in you, leave you and go be with someone else.

Now you might think that since you don’t value her as much as you used to before it will be okay if she leaves.

But that’s where it gets interesting and not in a good way. You see after she leaves your mind will play tricks on you. 

It will sound like, “How could I let this perfect looking girl go? Now some other dude is gonna be with her and having all the fun!”

And that’s when the pain, regret, and jealousy will kick in. As I mentioned, this woman is the hardest to avoid.

Since the male brain is highly influenced by physical appearance, that initial attraction you’ll feel for her will be intense.

The only advice I can give you here is this…

Have higher standards to avoid this toxic woman

Try your best not to date a girl only because she’s hot. In case you do, you have to be okay with the fact that it’ll most probably be a short-term thing.

With that said, you now have the complete list.

 

Women avoid certain types of men too

There are also men ALL women stay away from. Men who repel women like crazy without even trying.

Not only do these men never get laid. but they are also constantly subjected to painful rejections and are forced to settle for girls who they don’t even like that much.

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I can’t let you miss out on girls you really like and want to date or sleep with.

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Let me be your wing girl.

Marni

 

 

 

 

Thoughtful Holiday Gifts For Your Girlfriend (At Every Stage Of The Relationship)

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Gifts For Girlfriend At Every Stage Of Relationship

Today is a very special holiday edition newsletter! 

Although the advice I offer can totally be used all year round. 

The topic for today is gift-giving. I decided to give advice on this because I got an email from Franchesco asking this:

“Marni, I know the holiday time is meant to be fun and stress-free, but I’m definitely not feeling that way. I’m freaking out about what kind of gift to get the girl I just started seeing.  I really like her and I want my gift to make her happy and like me more.  What do you suggest I get her? Help me wing girl! I feel like this gift is a make or break.”

First of all, I can’t believe we’re even talking about the holidays right now. 

Second, if what you get for this girl really is make or break for your relationship. Then no matter what you get her you will be breaking up very soon.

So let's dial it back a bit with rational, calm, clear-headed thinking. 

I get why getting a gift for the woman in your life can put pressure on you and even cause stress.  It’s not the actual gift itself that stresses you out. It’s the pressure of what the gift may say or must say. 

The thing to know about women is that…

The gift you buy them says a lot to a woman. 

What you buy for a woman is more than just a gift.

It’s a statement of how you feel towards her and you don’t want to be saying things you don’t mean. 

Let's say you've been dating a woman for 6 months and things are going well, you’re having great sex, talk to each other almost every day, and you’ve met each other's families. 

From your history and actions with her, you are getting serious and take her seriously. 

If you then give her a scarf, not a scarf she said she wanted, just a scarf and some beauty supplies and a candle you’re kind of saying to that girl that’s it’s not as serious as she thinks it is and that she has been misreading all of your signs the whole time. 

The gift you give must be in line with how you feel about a woman and must also coincide with your level of commitment to her. 

So let me give you a few guidelines as well as a few gift ideas that will help you navigate the “what to get her” waters. 

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Situation #1 – You just started seeing a girl

You like her, but don’t really know where this is going yet, but you hope it goes somewhere.

For the first situation, you want to be sure to get something for her that shows her you’re paying attention to her, that you like her but that you understand this is still new. 

A gift that is semi-personal and is around in the 50 to 100 dollar range. Select something that she mentioned she liked and would love to have.  For example, one of those water bottles that keep your water cold for like 24 hours or a wine decanter because she loves her wine. 

Steer clear of over personalized things like getting her makeup or buying her clothes. 

At this point, you don’t know enough about her yet to know exactly what she would want or get herself. If you get her these types of things she may take it personally and think “does he want me to wear more makeup or does he not like how I dress?”  

Situation #2 – I take her seriously and I am committed 

This is the part of the relationship when you are past the “I’m not sure what this is” stage. At this point, you know for sure she is someone you take seriously and are committed to. 

Get a little more personalized and intimate to show that she’s someone special in your life. 

Things that show her that while this is still new, you are taking the relationship seriously and believe there is a future.  

Things like jewelry, or making something that has sentimental value behind it like a framed collage of pictures of the two of you. Booking activities that the two of you can do together in the future is a nice touch. Activities like a spa day or a mini-getaway somewhere.

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Get her a Fitbit or one of those watches that's a step tracker. Just make sure you also get one for yourself and tell her that it’s for both of you so that you can keep each other healthy.  

Again, things you guys can do together that says, “I know you’ll be here in two months and I want you to be.”

Situation #3 – Gifts for a serious live-in girlfriend, fiance, or wife 

The following gifts are for women who are a permanent fixture in your life. These are for a girlfriend you live with, a chosen life partner, fiance, or wife. 

You know she is yours and you are in it for the long haul. 

This is when expressing and showing that you are really listening to her wants and needs is super important and that you know her better than she knows herself.  

A guideline for this is to get the one thing that she doesn’t need but would never think to get for herself. 

This gift should spoil her because she deserves it.  

Other gifts can consist of practical, useful things that you know she likes and shows you know her well. 

An example of a “spoil herself gift” would be something that is a little on the pricier side.  

For example, something she has been looking at on the internet for months. She keeps adding it to her shopping cart and removing it because she feels guilty spending that much on herself.

Maybe a beautiful jacket, some really nice bed sheets, a piece of jewelry, reservations at a fancy restaurant, a purse, or a watch. 

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Something she would not buy for herself because she would feel guilty about doing it. 

Examples of practical gifts would be buying her favorite fancy makeup. But it has to be the right brand that she uses. Not just some generic one.  

Another good idea would be a gift card to her favorite restaurant, a mani-pedi, a day of babysitting, a membership to a wine club.  Things that are practical that she uses but also finds pleasure in. 

Giving a gift to a woman can be tricky, but it's not something a man should lose sleep over it. Hopefully, this guide brings some peace of mind and sparks ideas for what to get her.

Now it’s up to you to figure out which category your lovely lady fits into. Then you'll know which gifts to get her this holiday season. 

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Marni

 

 

What Turns Women Off “Raw Female Perspective”

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What Turns Women Off

Last night I totally thought of you when I was with my girlfriend Danielle. We randomly got on the subject of what turns women off. We were watching this super cheesy show called Married At First Site which is based on a social experiment on partnership.

The premise of the show is pretty amazing.

The show pairs up six people who agree to legally marry a complete stranger.

The series then documents their life together for several weeks. At the end, the couple has to decide whether or not they want to stay together. 

By no means am I writing you to promote this show, even though it is kind of interesting.

I write this because as your Wing Girl, I swear to always give you direct access to what women think and do when you're not around. 

Here is something you might not know about women. When girls get together their “ladylike” filters disappear and they say some pretty raw stuff! 

It's true! Women are not always polite, soft little angels. 

what turns women off

Sometimes we say and think things that aren’t particularly nice.  Honest but not nice.  

I wanted to share this with you is because I want you to know the things that we label as turn offs and deal breakers, so that you can be in the know.

To be honest, I would avoid doing them at all costs.

I’m sure if you heard these things, you may deem them stupid.

But to a woman, these can be BIG THINGS that hamper how she sees you and whether or not she is attracted to you and stays attracted to you! 

Enough explaining!

Here are some of things we say to each other during the show that I hope help you:

Poor body language

“You can honestly tell that guy is horrible in bed by the way he stands.  He just looks weak and like you would have to do all the work.”

– Here is a comment about how a man carries himself. He had poor body language and didn’t stand up to his new wife when she was bossing him around. He became absent and appeared to shut off.

Here’s another statement we made “What an idiot!  If he just noticed how frazzled and nervous she was about moving into together. And instead walked in and gave her a hug, she would be head over heels for him. Now she’s going to hate him.”

– This comment was made because on moving day this guys new wife was aggressively setting up the new house and ignoring him. 

Ignore her cries for help

She threw things. She wore an expression of anger and she would not make eye contact with him. And what did he do?  He ignored her obvious cry for help and kept unpacking instead of taking that opportunity to connect and get closer.

A hug and acknowledgement of the fact that he is nervous too would have been a game changer for them.  

Even if he didn’t know what was going on with her, just a statement like “I can see that something is upsetting you but I’m not sure what it is. Tell me what’s going on with you.”

Something was obviously bothering her and him caring enough to notice and ask about it would have made them closer. Instead he ignored it and now she thinks she can’t count on him. 

Keep a tidy home

Here is another comment, “If I walked into a guys apartment and saw those bed cover and curtains, I would run out of there as fast as I could.”

– This comment was made, when getting a tour of the super cute guys house and it was revealed that he had gold sheets and gold curtains.  

I can’t express this strongly enough but that is a huge “no no”  for every woman.  This screams player, cheeseball and grossness.

I just know that at some point a gold thong would have been whipped out too. Yuck! 

And the final comment we made was this: 

We said “now that was a good move!!!”

– This comment was made when one of the new husbands had just finished his first home cooked meal prepared by his new wife.  

Instead of what turns her off, try what turns her on! 

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When the meal was done he swooped her up in his arms and said I’m taking you off to bed little one. It’s time to get your reward!  

We both sat up when he said “little one” and rewound it three times just to see if he actually said that!

To be honest it wasn’t the “little one” comment that we liked so much, it was the full package of what he did with this woman. 

He flirted with her. He hugged her from behind, kissed her on the neck and then lifted her up and took her to the bedroom.  I wanted to be in his arms.  

There you go! Not ground breaking stuff but as I said in the beginning of this video, these little nit picky things send big messages to women.

Messages that could scream “NEXT”.

I want you to always win with women not just sometimes win.  

Tired of the hit and misses that turn women off?

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10 Secrets for a Lasting Relationship (From a Divorced Guy)

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As promised, here are the 10 Secrets for a Lasting Relationship (From a Divorced Guy). I've also posted the 10 secrets below 🙂

Enjoy!

10 Secrets for a Lasting Relationship (From a Divorced Guy)

 

This list is borrowed from an amazing article that one of my clients sent to me and it was written by a newly divorced man named Gerald Rogers.  

He wrote this wonderful list of 20 pieces of advice he wished he would have had years ago that could have saved his marriage. 

I cut his list down a little to 12 pieces of advice,  just to give you what I thought were the most important. 

I’m just going to read his list verbatim, because I agreed completely with his list. 

And why change perfection.

Please keep in mind that this list is for men BUT all women should have their own lists of rules to follow if they want a loving, healthy relationship.

1. Never stop courting

Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted.

When you asked her to marry you or be in a relationship with you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it.

This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU.

Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2. Be there for your woman and don’t try to always solve. Just be.

 

When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok.

Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean.

The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out,

and as you remain strong and un-judging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET.

Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

3. Be silly…

don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

4. Fill her love bucket everyday…

learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED.

Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

5. Be present

Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul.

Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER.

Treat her as you would your most valuable client.

6. Be willing to take her sexually… 

To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, 

and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. 

Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

Alright this is where I needed to add my 2 cents and paint a real picture of women and sexuality.  

This was a little too flowery for me. 

And as a woman, when I think about the kind of sex that is missing from most long term relationships, it’s NOT flowery sex. 

It’s the sex that existed at the front end of a relationship.  The desire driven sex that tells a woman she’s wanted and sexual. 


Here’s the deal. Women want sex. 

AND women in relationships want even more sex and to be seen as the sexual creatures they are.  

That means that you not only have to love and respect them BUT you also have to show her she’s wanted and desired on a sexual level. 

NOT a sexual vessel which is what tends to happen.  But a sexual, sexy, feminine creature.

7. Be vulnerable and fully transparent

You don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

This is how you get close and make her feel special.  Let her into your world and she’ll let you into her heart.

If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING…

Especially those things you don’t want to share.

It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds…

Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light.

DROP THE MASK…

If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

 

8. Never stop growing together

The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. 

Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. 

Find common goals, dreams, new hobbies, adventures, experiences and visions to work towards.

9. Forgive immediately…

and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. 

Don’t let your history hold you hostage. 

Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. 

FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

And finally:

 

10. Always choose love

ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. 

In the end, this is the only advice you need. 

If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your relationship. 

Love will always endure.

In the end relationships aren’t about happily ever after. 

They're about work and working together. 

A commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity.

Through that work, the happiness will come. 

Embracing all of the cycles, the ups and downs and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

He finishes with saying this. 

These are lessons I learned the hard way. 

These are lessons I learned too late. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. 

MEN – THIS IS YOUR CHARGE: Commit to being an EPIC LOVER.There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from. 

Be the type of man your woman can’t help but brag about.

I loved reading this.

You may or may not have someone special in your life right now. 

But this list is the key to having a successful long term relationship filled with happiness, sex and love. 

I’ve included a PDF of this list in the description box below because I want you to always have what I’ve told you in your back pocket. 

Whether you have just started a relationship or are deep into a long term relationship or no relationship at all. 

This is truly the key to happiness. 

I don’t want you to go through what this man went through.  Learning way to late where he went wrong, when his relationship could have always been saved.

 

Here's another question I've got for you.

 

Do you want to be the type of man who can do the 10 things I’ve listed without feeling like a doormat or a wimp or a pushover?

The kind of man that women crave, desire and brag to their girlfriends about?

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Briefly, here are some of the things you’ll learn in this program: 

  • The honest truth about what women think and how they want to connect with you 
  • Real-life conversations, mock misunderstandings, and the reality behind the typical things women say and do 
  • Proven methods to naturally connect with women through every phase of the relationship – from the conversation to the bedroom to marriage. (if that’s what you desire) 
  • Strategies on how to understand and connect any person of the opposite sex so you’re more charismatic, likable, and a joy to be around 
  • The doctor-created A.T.T.U.N.E Method that shows you the science behind what women want to in every step of the relationship so you know your next move 
  • How to give women instant ‘gaga juice’ – the secret way of attracting her in seconds and literally making her go gaga over you (…she’ll be telling her friends all about you too)

Get All of this and more by going to winggirlmethod.com/beyondattraction or clicking the link below in the description box. 

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What I share in this program will help you unlock so many sides of your woman that she won’t be able to control how much love and love making she’s wanting to give to you.


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I’ll see you next week

Valentine’s Day 2020 | What To Do For Valentines Day If You Just Started Dating

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Want to know What To Do For V-Day if you just started dating?  Well here “The Rules”:

You met a cute girl a few weeks ago, and you’ve had a couple of fun dates since. But there’s one big problem.

The date you met her was January 23rd, and Valentine’s Day is coming up fast. You like her so should you celebrate it? Or is it better to play it cool and ignore it all together

Valentine’s Day, whatever your relationship status, can be tough to get right. I understand, some of you guys will think it’s overly commercial, and shouldn’t be bought into. The women in your life may feel differently.

In the case of only dating a person for a week it’s even harder to know what’s appropriate to give.

But not giving anything at all? That feels like a high-risk policy. What if she turns up on V Day with something for you? She may not expect anything, but you can bet she’ll inwardly sigh when she sees you’re empty handed.

You’ll feel awkward, your date could be spoiled, and she may lose a little interest in you.

valentines day 2020Now, I’m not advising that this means you need to order a dozen red roses, a violinist and book a fancy restaurant:  it isn’t about the money spent, it’s about the gesture.

Go overboard and it will be too much: hit the note just right and you’ll show you’ve considered their feelings. And trust me, making a woman feel special is so much more important, than flashing your credit card.

So if you’re in this situation then I want you to get a tokenistic gift or a card within these perimeters:

–        Aim to spend under $10- a big gesture will be too much, so aim for something small but sweet.

–        Make it personal if possible- if she’s told you what her favorite chocolate is this would make a perfect gift.

–        Make her smile- if you feel awkward giving her something too romantic then go for a comedy kindergarten ‘cho-cho-choose you’ card.

–        Have fun- even if you think V Day is pointless, it’s still a great excuse to have a fun date.  Head to an amusement park, take her ice-skating, go karting, or just to a fun bar, and try an unconventional date that you’ll enjoy too.

Stick to these guidelines and V-day doesn’t have to be a day to dread. Instead use it as an excuse to have a fun date, show off some of the qualities you have, and make her smile.

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