10 Signs She’s Flirting With You

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Approaching a woman can already be difficult enough for most guys…

But once you get into a conversation with a woman, it can be even MORE difficult for men to spot the female flirting signs.

First, signs she is NOT interested:

-No eye contact
-Body shifted away from you
-Arms crossed
-Leaning back
-Looking around the room while you are talking
-Nodding and instead of responding
-Giving 1 word responses
-Being overly friendly

If you see these signs, RUN. Get away and get over this woman.  She’s not into you.

Now onto signs you should be looking for.

Here Are 10 Signs She’s Flirting With You:

1. A smile. This is the simplest flirt there is, and the hardest to misinterpret. If a woman smiles at you from across the room, a “slow smile” not a nervous or forced smile.this means that she wants you to talk to her.

2. The hair twirl. This is something that I do when I am into a guy and want him to be attracted to me. I twirl my hair, touch my lips and bat my eyes. All very feminine flirty things that, as women, we feel will make a man turned on and more attracted to us.

3. A “Wardrobe Change”.  It’s definitely a sign when she returns from the bathroom with new lip gloss applied, her hair tossed and a one less button done up.

4. Touch. Lightly touching you while talking is a BIG SIGN!!!  If I find several ways to slightly touch you or get close, I’m into you.  BUT if I freely and comfortable touch you multiple times throughout our conversation, I see you as a “friend” or “non-threatening”. Not a flirting sign. The slight differences in flirty touch vs. friend touch are so discrete, it’s hard for many men to tell the difference.  But once you can tell the difference between both, you’ll know exactly when to make your move in a way that gets her sooooo relieved when you finally do!  But I’ll get to that later on.

5. Body Language. Twisting my body away from you but still engaging in conversation.  When I flirt, I too want to be mysterious. So I’ll go back and forth between facing you and not facing you while in conversation. This will also help me calm down and get more comfortable.

NOTE:  When you notice a woman doing this and want to determine if she is interested, pay attention to the way she responds to you in conversation. If she responds with 1 word answers, then twists her body away, she is NOT interested. BUT if she engages you and responds with complete answers and then turns away or asks you a question,  she is into you.

6. Fidgeting. Tossing her hair, twists her pinky ring, or snaps her hairband, this counts as flirtatious behavior if and only if (and these are big “ifs” and “onlys”) she maintains uninterrupted eye contact. If she keeps glancing away, she may very well be repulsed by you and wants to get away as soon as possible. When I am attracted to someone I stumble over my words and fidget. We all get nervous.

7. Proximity. If she’s trying to get close to you, she’s flirting! If she’s constantly moving away, she’s sending you a subtle signal to back off, she’s not into you that way. A woman will get closer to you in proximity. You may even get the feeling she is hovering around you or trying to eavesdropping on your conversations.Women who do not want to be around you will physically back away from you. If she is into you she will lightly touch you in some way.

8. Lively banter and laughing.  She will be laughing at all of your jokes… even the unfunny ones  (another powerful flirting sign). When I am attracted to a guy, I will be fascinated by anything that comes out of his mouth.

9. Interview Time.  She’ll ask you questions about yourself.  What is your name? How old are you? What do you do for a living? Many men think that questions are a sign of testing, when in fact they are a sign of interest.  She’s asking you questions because she wants the full picture.  REMEMBER: Giving responses are important BUT the way you respond will dictate her attraction levels.  I’ll talk more about this in a moment…

10. Compliments & Digs.  You know how people say that loving and hating someone is pretty much the same thing. Well the same is true with compliments and insults.  If she’s complimenting you a lot or giving you digs like “oh you’re a player” or “I bet you like that girl”, SHE’S FLIRTING!!

Bonuses From Marni: I wanted to add in 2 more, just because I like you so much 😉

11. Talking About The Future.  She’s definitely flirting with you if she start to come up with future plans.  For instance, she’ll mention a band that she wants you to see. Or she’ll literally say, what are you doing next weekend? When I am flirting with a guy, I want to seal the deal and lock him down.

12. Fighting for validation or as I like to refer to it “impressing a guy with facts about me”.  You’ll notice she starts to talk about her being the “best” at something or how she was the “only girl she knows who ever…”  It’s was almost as if she’s screaming “I have value!!!! Like me, like me, like me”.

This is a huge sign that you have created attraction.  When a woman starts to validate herself to you, slipping in facts about why she’s great or what she has accomplished. It’s a sure fire sign that you have ignited the fire within! You have her bubbling and it’s showing through her nerves and desire for you to pay attention to her and think she is great.

So if you approach a woman and start talking to her and she starts bragging about something off topic from what you are discussing, she is attempting to show value. A.K.A She’s attracted and TOTALLY into you!!!  At this point you could literally do anything you want with her and she’ll be more than happy to do it.

Now that you know these 10 tell-tale signs that she’s flirting with you, you can start to capitalize on these opportunities.


This is actually where a LOT of guys screw up…because they have NO CLUE what to do once they sense a woman is flirting with them!

And sadly…a lot of them get even more nervous and end up missing an opportunity to get her number, or ask her out, or KISS HER when she obviously wants to be kissed…

Now this isn’t something I’m gonna let happen to you!

So join me as I interview over 50 beautiful, quality women to find out EXACTLY what they want you need to do next to take things to the next level after you catch all these signs

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So many guys miss out on these highly romantic opportunities with women because they don’t take the time to understand women or themselves in these moments!

Make sure you never have another missed moment with a women who is CLEARLY into you and discover how to take charge (and take HER) tonight!


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