Rejection sucks. It does. It sucks for men. It sucks for women (yes women get rejected too). Overall it sucks.
BUT, it sucks less when you experience it more.
Honestly, I know that seems counter intuitive but it’s true…let me explain.
I know from my own personal experience, that the more I put myself out there and feel the brunt of rejection, it actually effects me less.
I’m going to be gross for one second but I was listening to NPR and they were discussing torture victims. They said that those who experienced torture in their lives, no longer felt fear. It’s as if they hit their tipping point after being tortured and developed the belief system that nothing could be worse, so why be fearful.
This made them push forward even harder and with more confidence.
I talk to hundreds of guys every week, thousands every month and they all fear the same thing: REJECTION!!!
So instead of putting themselves out there to possibly be rejected, they don’t do anything and get no results. In my opinion that’s just silly. They are basically rejecting themselves, so that they won’t experience being rejected by a woman.
I was responding to comments that people post on my blog and I stumbled across one that made me think, this guy gets it!! This guy gets to how handle rejection by a woman AND how to flip the switch so his response creates attraction. It’s posted below:
This post honestly made my day!! I love hearing when guys who read my materials finally get it and they stay grounded and calm. Totally sexy and super attractive to women.
Honestly there is nothing sexier than a man who is unaffected by my actions. Gives me chills just thinking about it.
Why is this?
Because it shows me that this man can handle things.
“I had this guy that I had stuck in the friend zone for years. Whenever he would bring up becoming something more, I would say no I don’t want to ruin our friendship blah blah blah and he would crumble and try to convince me to be with him. Total turn off. Then one time when he brought it up, he said to me OK, smiled and then stopped contacting me. That man has been my boyfriend for 2.5 years. Ha.” – Emily 28
Lesson: Rejection isn’t the bad thing, it’s the way you handle it that can make you feel so horrible.
And I wanna make sure you have everything you need in order to be able to handle rejection like the strong, confident man that you are.
The point of this article isn’t to say that rejection’s actually really great! and it’s so easy once you get the hang of it!
Cuz it’s not…
But with my help, you’re gonna be able to walk into a room with stern confidence that you can and will have any woman you want, rejected or not…because THAT’S what happens when you can develop a rejection-proof system for yourself.
So hurry up and get started on becoming the ONE GUY that women can’t possibly reject among all the “other” guys out there 🙂