A lot of my clients always tell me, “Marni how do I be assertive without looking needy?”
Unfortunately, most guys act REALLY needy when it comes to talking to a girl…asking for her number…or trying to get her to hang out.
AND NEEDY GUYS ARE THE BIGGEST TURN OFF!
The trick is knowing the difference between being a sad needy BOY chasing after a woman in hopes that one day she’ll like him…and being a confident MAN who goes after what he wants and still knows that he doesn’t NEED her.
One of my good friends, Bobby Rio, actually just wrote an article about the 4 things women look for to weed out needy men…and how to pass all her tests to get your girl 🙂
Now Bobby says some…PRETTY CONTROVERSIAL stuff…and as a lady I can’t say that I’m behind him 100% when it comes to his “tactics” for seducing women…
HOWEVER, I wouldn’t be a good wing girl if I didn’t show you all your options 😉
To be completely honest…I was torn about showing you some of his stuff but…
I’ll leave it to you to make the decision for yourself if this is something that can really help you get the women you want!
Learn his weird “mind game” called The Scrambler here:
Now here’s Bobby!
Are You Too Needy With Women?
– Bobby Rio
In the article below, we wanted to discuss one of
the most critical elements to seducing that one girl
you really want
– your emotions
Unfortunately, most guys emotions DO NOT act in their best interest when it comes to getting a girl (especially when you really like her)
You’re emotions cause all kinds of mischief like making you act insecure, needy, clingy, and predictable…
All things that MURDER attraction.
The reality is that when these “emotions” take over… it’s like it disengages your logical brain. And you start doing all the things you know you SHOULD NOT be doing…
– feeling a compulsion to call or text her
– Unable to “play it cool”
– blurting out your feelings too soon
– making yourself too available
– showing noticeable jealousy when she mentions other guys
– showing too much disappointment when she can’t hang out .
Here’s the worse part…
She is going to TEST YOU to see how “needy” she can make you… (she does this subconsciously of course)
It’s her way of screening out weak guys.
She’ll cancel plans and pay close attention to how you react…
She’ll “forget” to text you back to see how you handle it…
She’ll challenge you on stuff to see how quickly you back down…
Here’s a very simple example of a “test”…
If you’re listening to a certain type of music that you like she might say…
”Do you like that?” in a tone that expresses that she definitely doesn’t.
How do you respond? Do you lie and say “not really”? Or ”It’s OK”
If so, you’re TRYING HARDER. And the pendulum of power is tipped in HER favor.
THIS tips it in your favor.
Find out NOW how to take the “Power” back:
– And she doesn’t want that. She would much rather you look at her and say “yeah, this song kicks ass.”
No girl wants a guy who won’t defend himself. Even against her.
Here’s the good news: You can correct this imbalance, and rather easily when you know exactly what to do.
Make it happen!
P.S. You see, in this video , we’re going to unveil to you
FOUR somewhat odd, but extremely effective strategies you can
begin to using today.
Click here to find out how to ultimately put YOU in the POSITION
of POWER (and eliminate your needy behavior):
If this article struck some chords with you…and if you’ve been struggling to find out how to finally stop feeling like a fool with women…then it’s time to make a change.
Women WANT men who go after what they want…we WANT guys who are persistent and confident and do whatever it takes to get us (why do you think we’ve obsessed with romantic comedies?!)
But we DON’T want guys who are desperate…
Guys who we’ve shot down MULTIPLE TIMES and still won’t take a hint…
Or guys who sit around settling for friendship when they clearly want something more.
And the only way to get your girl WITHOUT being needy and annoying is to show her that you DON’T need her.
Luckily, that’s EXACTLY what Bobby teaches in this new video…about turning on her “I Wanna Bang Him!” Switch (his words not mine! haha)
Again, I was torn about sending you this video…but I respect and admire Bobby…
Even if this video is a little raunchy and dirty…
Watch the video here:
Not only will you flip her switch to get her wanting you, but you’ll also ultimately flip YOUR switch from Needy Nerd to Irresistible Hero.
So take action now and stop sacrificing your time and dignity to chase after a woman whose switch you haven’t flipped yet!